The emotionally detached loveless mother!

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Imagine a mother who is physically present but mentally and emotionally absent. This could be due to two factors: 1. Normal mother who hates family or children - this could be a cultural problem, or upbringing problem or an individual level problem  2. Abnormal mother who is emotionally detached and loveless  In both cases, imagine the plight of the family. The husband expects certain help, support and understanding from his wife for family and children. But it is absent. There is sex but no love. The mother is unable to pick up social cues and is selfish. She starts masking techniques and starts blaming husband or family for anything that goes wrong around. She does not understand the protectiveness of her husband and never engages in a proper conversation on it.  She does cooking for family but is not emotionally attached to them. Her children are confused and do not learn anything about social behaviour from her. She uses deception to remain in power but has poor decep...
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Sex toys in marriages and relationships!

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 Sex toys were produced and marketed to cater to the sexual gratification of people. They can either substitute or supplement it. But ethically and legally their manufacture and sale is prohibited in countries. At many places, they are sold in dark alleys secretly. Now e-commerce has helped in sales and the $31 billion industry has seen a boom lately during coronavirus pandemic. In India, the sales soared 63% and both genders were clients. Besides, the purchases were done for major cities as well as small towns! 

Sex toys are controversially banned in countries and also considered a taboo. But in marriages and relationships it may have potential uses and may in fact save marriages on many occasions. Let us see how. 

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Sex dolls and toys in marriages and relationships 

They can supplement sex gratification in marriages. Marriages are social institutions but sex satisfaction also decides its stability and durability. Science says and we know that men have a higher sex drive than women. They have 3 times more orgasm and their sex desires remain for a major part of their life. It starts early in life and goes on for a longer time in life. So when there is this disparity in the need of sex in  a couple, it might lead to sexual dissatisfaction and breakup of a marriage. Sex dolls or toys can supplement here. 

Sex toys (Source: Amazon) 

These are effective if a relationship is mature and healthy with no insecure feelings in both partners. They can fill the gaps. But if one has insecure feelings or the sex toy becomes a substitute or one partner gets addicted to it, it may ruin a relationship. Hence if a relationship is harmonious and balanced, a sex toy is not required. But when there is an imbalance, it is required with a proper explanation and avoiding excesses. 

Besides, sex toys can tide over a crisis period in marriage such as surgery of one partner. Thus, it can become part of the Boudoir menu of couples. Besides, in long distance relationships or marriages, extramarital relationships are a high chance and risk. Sex toys can overcome these issues and help in prevention of infidelity in a relationship. 

With help of sex toys, couples can satisfy each other mutually and make the love session a great and pleasurable experience. 

Women can have greater control over their sexuality and desires. They are of use in disabled person in a marriage for sexual pleasure as well as collection of semen for IVF. They can be of use prior to marriage for education on sex or exposure. 

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