The emotionally detached loveless mother!

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Imagine a mother who is physically present but mentally and emotionally absent. This could be due to two factors: 1. Normal mother who hates family or children - this could be a cultural problem, or upbringing problem or an individual level problem  2. Abnormal mother who is emotionally detached and loveless  In both cases, imagine the plight of the family. The husband expects certain help, support and understanding from his wife for family and children. But it is absent. There is sex but no love. The mother is unable to pick up social cues and is selfish. She starts masking techniques and starts blaming husband or family for anything that goes wrong around. She does not understand the protectiveness of her husband and never engages in a proper conversation on it.  She does cooking for family but is not emotionally attached to them. Her children are confused and do not learn anything about social behaviour from her. She uses deception to remain in power but has poor decep...

Why I decided to not attend Nepal Respiratory society conference 2025?

I am a super-specialist doctor. Hence, when I learned about the pulmonology conference in Nepal in September 2025, I thought of attending it since I was there for some other work. 

But I ultimately decided against attending the Nepal Respiratory society conference. You will agree that 'the first impression is the last impression'. And my first impression about the conference and organizers, unfortunately, was bad. 

Reasons:

1. Incomplete information on internet 

No proper directions on internet. There was incomplete and wrong information. 

2. No office

When anyone makes a medical society or association, it needs to have a proper physical address, phone number, and email id. But this, Nepal respiratory society, lacked all of this. 

3. Piecemeal information 

Initially, the registration details had no details about registration for international delegates. Later, this was added. But again, there was improper info on it. At one place, the fees was 12k npr and at another place, it read 14k npr. 

4. No or delayed response 

There were three numbers given for contact, but answers from all of these were different and delayed. Most of the queries remained unanswered for days together. Ideally , answer has to come within 2 working days. Answer after 4 days is stated as delayed. Sadly, even the President of the NRS did not answer my message though I had clearly mentioned that I am a super-specialist doctor and wished to attend the conference. What an inefficiency!!!

5. Blindly supporting the harmful digitalization 

They said that everything was online and no cash payment. I pity those doctors who blindly follow what the illiterate politicians tell them do. As intellectuals, you need to question every new thing that is forced on you. Otherwise, what will be the difference between you and lay people or you and a herd of sheep or cows?

Digital technology may be good for information and limited communication, but it comes with its own disadvantages. There are cyber crimes and frauds. Even if you overlook this, doctors should know that digital technology promotes sedentary lifestyle that is bad for health. People have stopped visiting banks and shopping areas. They do everything from home with a click. But this has caused a rise in obesity and metabolic conditions. Obesity has become an epidemic and digitalization contributes to it. Heart ailments and diabetes are on the rise. Doctors need to make people aware of this rather than they themselves blindly following it. What a shame!!!

Mental health issues are rising thanks to social media on digital platforms. Social isolation and various musculoskeletal and orthopedic problems also are increasing due to it! 

6. Poor management/communication and choice of topics was just routine. 

I thought that if doctors are acting in a non professional way, the conference also would be equally bad. I would be wasting my time attending it. 

Hence, it is better that I do not attend the conference and spend my time in other fruitful and useful way!!!

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