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The emotionally detached loveless mother!

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Imagine a mother who is physically present but mentally and emotionally absent. This could be due to two factors: 1. Normal mother who hates family or children - this could be a cultural problem, or upbringing problem or an individual level problem  2. Abnormal mother who is emotionally detached and loveless  In both cases, imagine the plight of the family. The husband expects certain help, support and understanding from his wife for family and children. But it is absent. There is sex but no love. The mother is unable to pick up social cues and is selfish. She starts masking techniques and starts blaming husband or family for anything that goes wrong around. She does not understand the protectiveness of her husband and never engages in a proper conversation on it.  She does cooking for family but is not emotionally attached to them. Her children are confused and do not learn anything about social behaviour from her. She uses deception to remain in power but has poor decep...

How to manage, handle, and take care of children of different age groups during a divorce?

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  Divorce is hard not only for the divorcing partners but also for their children. It is an unpredictable and unplanned thing that comes suddenly and leaves everyone in shock and awe. There are a lot of emotions involved and feelings of hurt, distrust, pain are invariably part of it all. And then the legal process that follows adds on to the trouble. And the number of people divorcing is high. It is rising and the current pandemic had added to the woes. The divorces are more and previous divorces are pending; a huge backlog!!! Parents, themselves hurt and in pain, also have to think of the future of the young children. This is harder when these are minors. What is the most vulnerable age for a child when their parents are divorcing? DIVORCE AND THE MOST SUSCEPTIBLE AGE FOR CHILDREN If we try to answer the question at which age are children most traumatized by their parents’ divorce, then the answer is that children of all ages have bad effects on their physical and mental wel...