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Educated daughters vs strong daughters: The difference

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Indian government, Indian law, and pro-female organizations in that land talk about increasing education of girls and women. I get very amused at this ineffective and useless propoganda that does nothing great to help the girl child and women. This is because most women even if educated are unable to continue work, career or do entrepreneurship because their parents or in-laws or community will not allow them. So it means educate them for namesake and then make them stagnant to do caring and cooking jobs at home. In short, educate them and again throw them in the same gutter or furnace as before. Education gives them no financial independence, no autonomy, no freedom to decide for self or children. Then what is the role of education for them? Nothing. I pity the parents who think that educating a daughter makes them finish their duty towards her. They continue to rear her as a cow or sheep. The net result is an educated women with no respect or autonomy and no space of her own. This ca...

The first Christmas after a divorce or separation-How to handle it?

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Divorce is hard and trying time for the couple and their kids. It becomes more painful as Christmas approaches because traditionally, Christmas is time spend with family and friends. The feeling of loneliness gets amplified and people feel the pinch of divorce more at this time of the year. Many people get depressed if they are divorced and single at this time.  Post-divorce and Christmas After separation from a love partner and the approaching of the first Christmas after that is to be in a really bad state emotionally. Christmas is a holiday time to spend with family and friends. And when the family and kids are missing, it is extremely hard to bear. Loneliness creeps in. The usual time of the year, one is busy with work and career. But since Christmas time is a time of holidays from work, this distraction is also not there to keep one's mind occupied. And then you hear people talking about family and also see them enjoying time with their loved ones.  Post-divorce first Chr...