Why divorce should be easy!

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Couples come together for a common purpose. They bear children and start parenting them. But at times, they may grow apart and not want to remain a couple. They may want to separate. But society and law often prevents this separation. Because they feel that children might get affected due to the separation. Hence, law has made divorce difficult and asks couples the reason for the separation. They need to show some fault in the partner in order to get legal separation. But this only opens another Pandora's box in which false accusations and blame game begins. This is unhealthy and stressful not only for the couple but also for their children. Divorce of their parents does affect children. It can lead to stress and academic struggles in them. They might suffer severe mental stress and demonstrate behaviour changes in them. They may have anxiety, depression, feeling of guilt and shame and sadness. This may affect them in school and their social circle. They could become an object of r...
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Unhealthy Indian society and it's implications

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 Health of Society is equally important as that of an individual. But outdated cultures and negative mindsets of people can affect the society's health and cause it to deteriorate. Take for instance, the love and worship of a male child in Indian society worldwide. This has not changed over the years despite laws being laid for gender equality under British colonial rule as well as self-rule. 

Love and worship of male children

In the regressive Indian culture, male child is valued while female children and women are just taken as a symbol of sex and reproduction. Despite women of today pursuing higher education and taking up important roles in the society and workforce, nothing substantial has changed for them at the home front. 

Read here: How human milk banks in India are exploiting women in the name of nobility?

Besides, such independent women in India are a minimum and cannot put forth their points assertively. And at home, they still continue to follow culture laid gender roles with very few men really helping them in cooking, child care, and such household chores. There is no sharing in care of children and household chores. 

The dislike for female progeny has reached such enormous heights that parents abort female fetuses and feel no shame in doing so. The female feticide continues underground even though there are some punitory laws made related to it. These laws in no way has truly helped in reducing female feticide even though government is shouting its lungs out that it has. 


Let us look at what all this absence of gender parity and hate for female progeny has led to in India especially in the Northern states where patriarchal society is stronger than that in Southern parts of India. 

1. Female feticide 

2. Female infanticide 

3. Improper maternal nutrition and increased maternal deaths. 

4. Dissatisfaction and unhappiness in women and girls 

5. Overburden and tension in working married women

6. No support for women

7. Mental disorders in women

8. Women becoming a liability 

9. Women considered a burden to shed at the earliest 

10. Wrong notion that women cannot be independent 

11. Men getting no brides due to skewed sex ratio 

12. Rise in sex brides. So you see, despite men suffering with lesser brides, the ultimate victim still is the girl or women who is kidnapped and used as sex brides in states like Haryana and Punjab. And government is a mute spectator of this all.

13. Increasing number of women opting for no marriages or overseas transfers or marrying non-Indian men. If Indian men think they can get brides from overseas, then with it with come problems for them because non-Indian women will not take any nonsense from Indian men if they ill-treat her!!!

So you see, the ultimate sufferer would be the men, present and future, in India. Why not just start respecting women and treating her well if you want a good society and family in future??? If your aim is only sex and reproduction, with no happiness, then go ahead and continue to do what wrongs you are doing now! All the best!

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