Educated daughters vs strong daughters: The difference

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Indian government, Indian law, and pro-female organizations in that land talk about increasing education of girls and women. I get very amused at this ineffective and useless propoganda that does nothing great to help the girl child and women. This is because most women even if educated are unable to continue work, career or do entrepreneurship because their parents or in-laws or community will not allow them. So it means educate them for namesake and then make them stagnant to do caring and cooking jobs at home. In short, educate them and again throw them in the same gutter or furnace as before. Education gives them no financial independence, no autonomy, no freedom to decide for self or children. Then what is the role of education for them? Nothing. I pity the parents who think that educating a daughter makes them finish their duty towards her. They continue to rear her as a cow or sheep. The net result is an educated women with no respect or autonomy and no space of her own. This ca...
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Unhealthy Indian society and it's implications

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 Health of Society is equally important as that of an individual. But outdated cultures and negative mindsets of people can affect the society's health and cause it to deteriorate. Take for instance, the love and worship of a male child in Indian society worldwide. This has not changed over the years despite laws being laid for gender equality under British colonial rule as well as self-rule. 

Love and worship of male children

In the regressive Indian culture, male child is valued while female children and women are just taken as a symbol of sex and reproduction. Despite women of today pursuing higher education and taking up important roles in the society and workforce, nothing substantial has changed for them at the home front. 

Read here: How human milk banks in India are exploiting women in the name of nobility?

Besides, such independent women in India are a minimum and cannot put forth their points assertively. And at home, they still continue to follow culture laid gender roles with very few men really helping them in cooking, child care, and such household chores. There is no sharing in care of children and household chores. 

The dislike for female progeny has reached such enormous heights that parents abort female fetuses and feel no shame in doing so. The female feticide continues underground even though there are some punitory laws made related to it. These laws in no way has truly helped in reducing female feticide even though government is shouting its lungs out that it has. 


Let us look at what all this absence of gender parity and hate for female progeny has led to in India especially in the Northern states where patriarchal society is stronger than that in Southern parts of India. 

1. Female feticide 

2. Female infanticide 

3. Improper maternal nutrition and increased maternal deaths. 

4. Dissatisfaction and unhappiness in women and girls 

5. Overburden and tension in working married women

6. No support for women

7. Mental disorders in women

8. Women becoming a liability 

9. Women considered a burden to shed at the earliest 

10. Wrong notion that women cannot be independent 

11. Men getting no brides due to skewed sex ratio 

12. Rise in sex brides. So you see, despite men suffering with lesser brides, the ultimate victim still is the girl or women who is kidnapped and used as sex brides in states like Haryana and Punjab. And government is a mute spectator of this all.

13. Increasing number of women opting for no marriages or overseas transfers or marrying non-Indian men. If Indian men think they can get brides from overseas, then with it with come problems for them because non-Indian women will not take any nonsense from Indian men if they ill-treat her!!!

So you see, the ultimate sufferer would be the men, present and future, in India. Why not just start respecting women and treating her well if you want a good society and family in future??? If your aim is only sex and reproduction, with no happiness, then go ahead and continue to do what wrongs you are doing now! All the best!

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