The emotionally detached loveless mother!

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Imagine a mother who is physically present but mentally and emotionally absent. This could be due to two factors: 1. Normal mother who hates family or children - this could be a cultural problem, or upbringing problem or an individual level problem  2. Abnormal mother who is emotionally detached and loveless  In both cases, imagine the plight of the family. The husband expects certain help, support and understanding from his wife for family and children. But it is absent. There is sex but no love. The mother is unable to pick up social cues and is selfish. She starts masking techniques and starts blaming husband or family for anything that goes wrong around. She does not understand the protectiveness of her husband and never engages in a proper conversation on it.  She does cooking for family but is not emotionally attached to them. Her children are confused and do not learn anything about social behaviour from her. She uses deception to remain in power but has poor decep...
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Popular Chinese food dishes in the USA that are not Chinese or authentic

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 Chinese restaurants are present worldwide. But do you know that some of the popular Chinese food dishes served in these restaurants are actually not authentic. They are not eaten in China and they are not traditional Chinese foods. Which are these foods? 


Chinese restaurants and their Chinese food dishes


Chinese restaurants globally serve a lot of Chinese food dishes. But some of these are not Chinese. No one in China eats those dishes. And they are actually just a westernized version of the Chinese dishes in order to cater to the wider appeal. They are entirely new or just modified versions of the original Chinese foods. 


In China, diet is mostly plant based with little meat. Whereas, the Chinese foods in American Chinese restaurant usually meat heavy and sweeter and more fried. These 5 Chinese dishes are not known in China. 


General Tso's Chicken


Not found in China. This is fried chicken with sweet to spicy taste. This is high in calories and saturated fats as well as sodium. And it is unhealthy. 


Chop Suey


Some enterprising Chinese restaurateurs invented this dish to fill the stomach of miners who were addicted to alcohol. The cooks took all the leftovers, added soy sauce and served it to the miners. This is high in salt due to the sauce content. 




Crab Wontons


These are fried dumplings containing crab meat and cream cheese. Many Chinese are lactose intolerant. Hence this food is not part of their diet in China. But in the USA, it is a famous Chinese food.


The crab meat is high in protein and zinc. But the cream cheese is full of saturated fats. And deep frying increases its unhealthy nature. 


Beef and Broccoli


This is not eaten in China. It is unhealthy unless need is lean and from grass fed cows. Beef has protein, B vitamins, and minerals. And broccoli has antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals. 

Read here: 10 colorful teas


Fortune Cookies


These cookies have edible sugar, flour, vanilla, and sesame oil. They came from Japan and not China. Chinese prefer fruits for desserts and snacks and not cookies. 

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