The emotionally detached loveless mother!

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Imagine a mother who is physically present but mentally and emotionally absent. This could be due to two factors: 1. Normal mother who hates family or children - this could be a cultural problem, or upbringing problem or an individual level problem  2. Abnormal mother who is emotionally detached and loveless  In both cases, imagine the plight of the family. The husband expects certain help, support and understanding from his wife for family and children. But it is absent. There is sex but no love. The mother is unable to pick up social cues and is selfish. She starts masking techniques and starts blaming husband or family for anything that goes wrong around. She does not understand the protectiveness of her husband and never engages in a proper conversation on it.  She does cooking for family but is not emotionally attached to them. Her children are confused and do not learn anything about social behaviour from her. She uses deception to remain in power but has poor decep...
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Celebrity plastic surgery disasters! Have a look at the before and after pictures!

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 Hollywood is the place on this planet that has image-conscious people! People there are conscious about their looks and faces. The reason is obvious! It is these great looks that is their earning and their bread and butter! Hence they have to maintain it!

Many celebrities have gone under the knife for some small nips and tucks. This has been to overcome some body defect or to look more beautiful. As long as it is minimal in amount, it should be okay. But like any other medical field, plastic surgery also has its limitations. It may not be all that precise and perfect work. The experience of the plastic surgeon also counts. Besides, unpredictable effects are known. And excesses are to be avoided. But sometimes for money or pressures of their clients, plastic surgeons take the surgeries in one person to the extreme and the end result is a disaster! Have a look for yourself! 

1. Amanda Lepore, Transgender American model before and after her anti-ageing therapy

Amanda Lepore

2. Axl Rose, Gun N'Roses frontman before and after his cheek implants and facelift surgery

Axl Rose
3. Carla Bruni, former French First Lady before and after Botox
Carla Bruni 
4. Heidi Montag, reality TV star had done facelift and nose job and almost 10 surgeries on her body in one day. She now regrets it. 

Heidi Montag
5. Shauna Sand, former Playboy playmate before and after her lip injections
Shauna Sand

These are just a few disasters of plastic surgery. There are many more celebrities and even common people who went under the knife and has a worse look than an improvement. 

Please learn to accept your body image and not resort to surgeries to rectify it. One can use plastic surgery if the defect is leading to some functional problem in the person. Just a change of appearance is not a reason to go under the knife. You may end up looking worse or maybe even an alien. And these disasters may be irreparable. 

"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" and 
"Inner beauty is more important than outer beauty."
Besides, 
It is more beautiful to be nice rather than it is nice to be beautiful."



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