Educated daughters vs strong daughters: The difference

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Indian government, Indian law, and pro-female organizations in that land talk about increasing education of girls and women. I get very amused at this ineffective and useless propoganda that does nothing great to help the girl child and women. This is because most women even if educated are unable to continue work, career or do entrepreneurship because their parents or in-laws or community will not allow them. So it means educate them for namesake and then make them stagnant to do caring and cooking jobs at home. In short, educate them and again throw them in the same gutter or furnace as before. Education gives them no financial independence, no autonomy, no freedom to decide for self or children. Then what is the role of education for them? Nothing. I pity the parents who think that educating a daughter makes them finish their duty towards her. They continue to rear her as a cow or sheep. The net result is an educated women with no respect or autonomy and no space of her own. This ca...

Loneliness is a growing epidemic especially during this coronavirus pandemic in the USA!

 The coronavirus pandemic has increased social segregation and this has proven to be bad particularly for the elderly population. They are unable to catch up with their children and grandchildren and are finding themselves extremely lonely. They are the worst affected by the pandemic in terms of physical as well as emotional health.

THE OLD AGE AND LONELINESS

Old age is a time of loneliness for many people. Usually, people have lost their partners at that ripe age and depend on their children and grandchildren for support and to beat the loneliness. Though their younger family members used to occasionally visit the parents, now with the coronavirus pandemic this has become difficult due to the risk of the children carrying the infection to their aged parents and grandparents. So the visits have come down drastically and the contact remains only on phone or via digital technology. This though good does not suffice and cannot substitute the physical visits and the warmth that they bring to the aging people.

Old age and loneliness [Source: WebMD]

There is some good news on that front in the development of COVID-19 vaccines, but along with it is the second wave and rising infections. Deaths and hospitalizations are also surging and this has made it more difficult for them. Corona continues to remain a public health emergency. And these figures that in the USA are as high as 200k per day could reach 300k by the yearend, estimates say.

THE SECOND PEAK OF THE PANDEMIC AND LONELINESS

The second wave of the infection as predicted is worse than the first wave. There are increased cases, increased hospitalizations, increased deaths, more economic uncertainty and gradually mental health issues are creeping in greater numbers. Initially, it was thought that things would clear up soon but now the future is bleak. Studies have revealed that there are rising cases of anxiety and depression related to the pandemic. Old cases are reemerging and new cases are getting diagnosed. These are the cases that come to light but loneliness is a problem that remains unattended to.

Loneliness and lockdown [Source: Healio]

Increasingly, people are feeling the pinch of being alone. There is a sinking feeling coming in individuals and they are getting gripped by this new problem of loneliness that never was there before. All age groups are affected but most are the elderly people.  Earlier studies had revealed that loneliness is a risk factor for premature deaths and it is even worse than obesity, air pollution, or lack of physical exercises. It is an overlooked problem but is as dangerous to health as chronic smoking.

AMERICANS AND THE LONELINESS

Studies have revealed that Americans are lonelier for the past many decades. And now the coronavirus pandemic has further hiked this issue. Besides older adults, teens, young adults, and low-income class are particularly affected. The young are unable to date properly and digital dating does not seem to come to fruition. Nearly one-third of adolescents are facing this loneliness and things are only getting hard for them. Working people have lost jobs and contacts with colleagues.

Loneliness on the rise [Source: YouTube]

Also, read more on Gabrielle Union and her PTSD

Though therapy for loneliness was possible before the pandemic, during the COVID-19 nothing much can be done for it. Some forms of digital and online measures to combat loneliness can be tried and should be initiated by public health doctors and nurses for the sake of the people who are caught up in this inescapable mesh. People who feel this loneliness should also try to reach out to people and medical people to address and get therapy for it. Keep talking to people around to counteract the problem and try to help others who are lonely. Otherwise, we will perish from loneliness if not from COVID-19.

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